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Epic Love

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Hello Lovely,
Epic Love does not follow the usual rules. 

I recently attended a zoom Masterclass for Projectors.

On this call, there was one simple line that has been playing over and over again in my head…

“Give a little more than you receive”

The timing of this nugget was perfect, because it aligns with my more recent thoughts on relationships and Love.

Epic Love.

It is not Love when it is transactional—as in only working within the parameters of equal give and take.

And that’s the space that I see a lot of people residing, and then wondering why they cannot access the depth of relationships they desire.

This is the difference between Love and love.

Can you see the difference?

Human love is limited. Conditional. Self serving. Lower case “l” love.

Divine Love is unlimited.  Unconditional. Sacrificial. Upper case “L” Love.

To have the partnerships our souls are calling us to requires a reframing of our standards of self and Love.

The journey of self love starts with a need to be selfish, in order to understand the self and recreate the self identity and sovereignty.

But we are not intended to stay there in that limited space. The purpose is to shift from this place to service.

Because when you master the well of Love within you, you do not operate from a space of scarcity, and you are able to give liberally.

You are connected to the Infinity of Love.

And you desire to give more than you take.

This is where you realize it’s all bigger than just you.

This is where you realize your limitlessness.

Your multi-dimensionality.

Your abundance.

Your magic.

Your epic Love story.

Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to start living from this radical open-heart space to reveal your Epic Love Story. 

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

Suze

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Choosing Epic

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Hello Lovely,
Choosing Epic doesn’t always look “Epic” in the beginning…

I woke up today feeling sad, tired, and discouraged.

Sad about a certain situation in my life, and tired/discouraged with how long certain things are taking to manifest.

Sadness is a shrinking energy. The temptation is to collapse into it.

Especially if you have a life story like mine, where I learned that I had to solve all my problems alone. (Emotional neglect, betrayal, humiliation, abandonment.)

It’s here that I had a moment of decision—isolate and figure it out on my own, which gives me more “evidence” that I am better off alone, I am too much, and I am invisible.

Or

I could choose connection.

In every possible aspect available to me.  (Every strand of the energetic spider’s web that I talk about)

I chose expansion.

I chose the light. 

I chose connection…

I reached out to a girlfriend and asked for her to hold space for me.

I connected with my boys and nature by talking a walk in the fresh snow and consciously choosing to keep looking UP and taking pictures.

I connected with the delight of my cup of coffee.

I connected with music by choosing to listen to music that feels fiery and lights me up.

Connection heals.

Connections shifts.

Connection opens you back up to experiencing life as it was intended to be—with joy, love, and pleasure.

Choose connection.

Choose expansion. 

Choose epic.

If you resonated with this letter, you may also like to read “No Matter What”.

I am receiving new clients. Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to experience this energetic mastery and create sustainable growth and fulfillment in your Epic Love Story. 

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

Suze

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What You Need The Most

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Hello Lovely,

Do you truly know what you need the most?

In yoga, there is a saying, “The pose you resist the most is the pose you need the most”.

Is it possible that this is also true in love & life?

Medicine usually does not taste good. It’s purpose is not to be enjoyable, but rather to help in healing.

Working out is not always fun, but it’s core purpose is to build a strong body & mind.

Our relationships that are divinely connected will expose our shadows and areas that need to be brought into consciousness.

Isn’t that the purest & realest Love that exists?

A Love that brings our shadows into the light?

Isn’t that the highest purpose of Love? To heal?

So why are we running?

What needs to shift so that the shadow aspect is healed?

What is blocking us from seeing this painful experience as a call to receive the medicine of Love?

As long as we continue to run, we are continuing to run from the parts of ourselves that are begging for healing.

Choose to stay.

Choose to reframe the experience back to Love.

Choose to take ownership.

Choose to receive the Love.

What you need the most is not always the easy. Choose to give it to yourself anyway. 

I am receiving new clients. Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to experience this energetic mastery and create sustainable growth and fulfillment in your Epic Love Story. 

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

Suze

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What If It Is Way Bigger Than We Thought, part 2

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Hello Lovely,
Let’s continue my thoughts on “what if it is way bigger than we thought?”

In my previous letter, I started talking about how connecting the physical world to the energetic is another dimension of finding Union between the feminine & masculine.

Today, let me share an example from my own life…

I recently decided to re-configure my home to get my work space out of my bedroom.

I feel my bedroom is a sacred space that needed to hold space for deep intimacy, connection, and relaxation. 

I made a new work space for myself elsewhere in my home and the energetic awareness became even more clear—I felt the urge to invest in some simple things to support (hold space) for what my energetic goals are for my business this year.

This then grew to my kitchen, where I became aware I was holding on to things because it was practical to keep them, even though they were tied to former versions of myself. I didn’t “need” to replace these things, but the old were connected to my marriage and the person I was then (people pleaser). 

Not only is this creating Union, but I also realized this was a huge release of scarcity mindset.

Where are you being practical, but the practical is not big enough to hold space for ALL that you are NOW? (Do you have just what you need to get by, or are you expressing all that you desire to experience in that space?)

Does your work space support ALL that you desire to bring to the table? Does it hold the energy you need to feel good, successful, & fulfilled as you work?

Where are you denying yourself expression of ALL that you are now? (In your physical spaces)

What needs to change to support the energies that you are growing NOW?

What space need to get clearer to physically show and resonate with the deeper things you are calling forth this year?

Your physical space is holding space for you.

Let it mirror back ALL of you—ALL the dimensions and aspects of who you are.

Here you can find my first letter in this series, “What If It Is Way Bigger Than We Thought?”.

I am receiving new clients. Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to experience this energetic mastery and create sustainable growth and fulfillment in your Epic Love Story. 

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What If It Is Way Bigger Than We Thought?

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Hello Lovely,
What if it is way bigger than we thought? 

You may have heard that inner union creates outer union.

Usually, this is in the context of relationships…

…Inner Union is the balanced integration and of our own inner masculine & feminine energies. (Inner “marriage”)…

…As this inner state is achieved, the result is reflected in outer union — harmony, unity, and balance with the masculine man in your life. (“Marriage” energy)

What if it’s way bigger than just that?

What if it’s multi-dimensional?

Remember the spider’s web of energy I talked about ? ( See post titled “Discipline”)

Is it possible that finding inner union and outer union is also exemplified by creating harmony and unity between the spiritual (inner) and physical (outer) worlds as well?

Does your home support (hold space) all that you are (energetically)?

Do your physical spaces allow for creation of your heart’s desires?

Do the areas in your home accurately reflect what they are intended to provide (fully!) for you?

Or are they too scattered/entangled/practical, and not holding space for all that you are and desire to have?

I am receiving new clients. Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to experience this energetic mastery and create sustainable growth and fulfillment in your Epic Love Story. 

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

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Boundaries

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Hello Lovely,
Boundaries.

Yikes. A lot of people have a lot of issues with boundaries. And I get it—I used to, too.

Boundaries are masculine, so that right there should start to explain why we get all tense about it.

Masculine energy IS tense and rigid.

Add to that any resistance to masculine energy (due to wounding), and you have a perfect storm.

Masculine energy also tends to create separation, space, and distinction, which triggers the feminine because she craves connection, partnership, and flows in nuance. 

So how do we make boundaries feel better?

Remember that energy is multi-dimensional.

If it is masculine, it also has its feminine counterpart.

Feel the energetic switch in your body as you feel through this process…

Boundaries are not about pushing people away or isolating yourself or losing people.

Boundaries are simply about supporting your needs so that you can feel safe, calm, and at peace.

Boundaries are all about you and actually have nothing to do with the other person.

Boundaries are an act of radical self acceptance because you recognize that you need extra support in maintaining your peace and calm in a particular dynamic.

Does that feel better? Softer? More loving?

If it’s all energy, and energy is multi-dimensional, then the masculine aspects of life have their feminine counterparts.

Recognizing that energy is multi-dimensional is the new path to self mastery.

Boundaries are a huge theme that comes up over and over again with my clients. 

You can read more about my methods of reframing resistant energies by reading the post “Discipline”.

I am receiving new clients. Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to experience this energetic mastery and create sustainable growth and fulfillment.

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Both The Feminine & Masculine Are Needed

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Hello Lovely,
Yoga poses are the perfect physical example of how both the feminine & masculine are needed.

Wheel pose.

It demands intense focus and strength (masculine).

It also requires tremendous spine flexibility (feminine).

It does not work without both aspects, collaborating and integrating.

The strength provides the framework and structure to support the pose.

The flexibility adds beauty, life, and movement to the frame.

This is wholeness.

This is multi-dimensional.

This is Divine Feminine.

She knows how to use both aspects of herself to create exactly what she wants/needs. 

Integration and balance of both masculine and feminine is self mastery. (Inner union)

After letting go of unhealthy masculine energy and loving the freedom of the feminine flow, we may find resistance when we realize we need to integrate some healthy masculine structure/action back in.

This also shows up in our relationships with masculines. We resist the very thing we actually want and need.

Learning how to heal and then use your masculine energy for good must take place to create harmony and collaboration with the masculine man in your life.

The outer Divine Counterpart partnership starts with an inner counterpart partnership. (Inner union).

The path to inner union is by integrating the masculine back in, through feminine resonance and, therefore, the path of least energetic resistance.

I have the gift of feeling into the energy of my clients to find, hold space, and then release the shame energy (wounds). Then, we unlock the energies that feel really good and are connected to the bigger picture of what you want. (Multi-dimensional energetic mastery)

If you resonated with this article, you may also like to read, “When We Don’t Need Anyone.”

You can read more about my methods by reading the post “Discipline”.

I am receiving new clients. Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to experience this energetic mastery and create sustainable growth and fulfillment.

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

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Discipline

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Hello Lovely,
Discipline.

It is a word that is associated with masculine, so some of us cringe from it, but we also know that it is an energy that is needed to accomplish our goals.

Maybe it feels rigid and tense.

Maybe it feels restrictive and controlling.

Maybe it feels heavy and limiting.

Maybe it triggers negative childhood memories.

Whatever it is that you don’t like about it, it has something to do with the fact that it’s masculine.

But clearly, it is an energy that is needed in life, if we are to accomplish goals, and feel proud of ourselves. (Energy of success)

The key to overcoming resistance to energies is to understand that energies are multi-dimensional.

We have come a long way in realizing that everything is energy, but most still don’t realize that energy is multi-dimensional.

Each energetic word is like a spider web—it has other energies that are linked into it, and once we find the strand that we have the least resistance to, we are able to access the whole web.

Back to “discipline”…

How does the word “devotion” feel?

Better? Softer? More attractive?

Now FEEL deeply into that word.

If you are completely devoted to something, you will be disciplined. They go hand-in-hand.

If you are devoted to your business, you will be disciplined in taking action to reaching your goals.

If you are devoted to a relationship, you will be disciplined in your actions to support the relationship’s development and growth.

This is part of how my coaching methods work.

We identify the energies behind what you want.

Then, we unravel the spiders webs around those words to find the path of least resistance for you to access those energies.

I do this by feeling into your energy. I am very sensitive to resistance (especially shame!), and am gifted with asking questions that pull words out of you that precisely express the feelings/energies with the least amount of resistance and the most amount of bliss.

This intense clarity (Projector-level seeing) lights the way forward for you.

Energy is multi-dimensional.

This is the new way of self mastery.

Discipline is absolutely necessary in the evolution of our Epic Love Story. We just have to reframe it to release the resistance. 

If you resonated with this, you may also like to read, “Boundaries”.

I am receiving new clients. Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to experience this energetic mastery and create sustainable growth and fulfillment.

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

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Divine Feminine Update

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Hello Lovely,
Let’s unite together and check in with this Divine Feminine Update…

My client calls this week have been 🔥🔥🔥!

A HUGE shift came through for the DF collective with this new year, and it is exhilarating to be a part of it.

All the work and pain of the past couple of years has brought the DFs to a whole new level of self worth.

Hold the boundaries that you created as we closed out 2022. Just because this new territory is unfamiliar, do not go back to the old “comfort zone” because it’s familiar. New opportunities are on their way to you.  Trust.

The DF collective is passionate about creating her own stability—emotionally and financially.

Hold this high vibe and move forward with much intentionality.

There may be temptations to go back to former versions of yourself, or react/communicate in old ways, or repeat old patterns—be careful not to do this.

Move at the pace that is right for YOU, and let go of the fear of losing something, messing up, or missing out.

Keep looking upwards for guidance, for resources, for calm.

You are safe.

You are supported.

You have the resources.

Take the leap of faith and step into the next thing you are being called to do.

Listen to your body and adjust your food intake, exercise, and rest schedules as necessary. (A lot of changes happening here).

Allow your inner masculine strength and determination to rise as you establish the foundations that are important for you.

Trust that what is meant for you will rise up to meet you! (Breathe into that)

What would support you in feeling more of your own strength, power, focus, and determination? (Food, clothes, music, exercise)

What helps you stay clear in your vision?

What changes do you need to make in your physical space to organize and empower your goals?

What physical things/spaces need to be purged, because they are connected to the energies that you have disconnected from?

What physical changes to your space would help you stay consistent on your mission?

What other boundaries (with yourself!) do you need to set to keep your energy in the place that you know it needs to be? (Social media, phone calls, any exposure to outside energies)

We got this!!! Keep going! ❤️

I hope you feel encouraged and validated with this Divine Feminine Update!

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All my love to the Divine Feminines,

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